When we first decided to raise our kids on a sailboat, we had no idea what we were getting into. It’s been a journey filled with challenges, laughter, and more than a few surprises. For those of you considering this lifestyle, or just starting out, I’d like to share some things we’ve learned along the way. Trust me, we’re still figuring it out too!1. Baby-proofing is an Ongoing Adventure

We quickly realized that baby-proofing a boat is very different from securing a house. It’s a constant process of adapting and problem-solving. One day, you think you’ve got it all figured out, and the next, your little one finds a new way to explore that you never even considered. Nets all around the deck quickly became an essential item onboard. It can be frustrating, but it’s also pretty amazing to watch how resourceful and curious kids can be.

2. The Sea: A New World of Wonder (and Taste)

Watching our kids discover the ocean has been magical, but it comes with its challenges. They’re naturally curious about this big, moving bathtub and yes, they’ll try to drink it. Quickly the whole beach looks like a giant choking hazard. Desperately trying to explain why sea water isn’t for drinking while watching your toddler taste every grain of sand or shell. Keep fresh water handy and remember, their curiosity is a beautiful thing, even when it leads to funny faces.

3. The Diaper Dilemma

Oh, diapers. Who knew such tiny things could become such a big issue on a boat? Whether you choose cloth or disposable, you’ll face unique challenges. Storage, washing, disposing – it all takes some creative thinking. We’ve had our share of, let’s say, interesting diaper situations, but you learn to manage each one as you go. We decided on disposable when trash disposal is available but mostly washable cloth diapers for everything but night time.

4. Seasickness Happens to the Little Ones Too

It caught us off guard when our first baby first got seasick. It’s heartbreaking to see them uncomfortable, and it can feel overwhelming if you happen to be dealing with your own queasiness as well. But don’t worry – most kids adapt over time. In the meantime, we’ve found that fresh air, staying hydrated, snacks, and lots of cuddles helps everyone feel better. Even convincing them to look for dolphins on the horizon can sometimes help. Going below deck is never a good option. Thus having an enclosed cockpit where you can be protected from the sun, rain and breaking waves is a game changer. If all else fails we have found some success with kids seasickness medication which unfortunately is not an option for babies.

5. Your Boat Becomes a Floating Playroom

We all would love keeping our boat neat and organized. For us that has always been a challenge, especially while working on boat projects. Now? It’s more of a colourful, toy scattered playground. At first, it stressed us out (sometimes it still does), but we try our best to embrace the joyful chaos. Seeing our kids turn the boat into their personal adventure land is pretty special, even if we do step on the occasional race car or doll.

6. Nap Time: A New Kind of Challenge

Getting babies to nap on a moving boat can be… interesting. We’ve become experts at creating cozy sleep spaces in unlikely places (like a cockpit floor). Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. Having a small baby tent works miracles at keeping your little one safe once he/ she can roll over or crawl. On tough days, remember that this phase won’t last forever, and there’s always coffee (for the grown-ups, of course).

7. Nighttime Parenting Takes on New Meaning

Those middle-of-the-night waking’s can be extra challenging on a boat. But they can also be incredibly special. There’s something magical about cuddling your baby under full sail and a sky full of stars, while listening to the gentle lapping of waves. It doesn’t make the lack of sleep easier, but it does make it more memorable.

8. Redefining What’s “Essential”

Our idea of what we “need” has changed dramatically since having kids on board. Things we never thought about before suddenly become crucial. It’s a constant balance of space, practicality, and what makes life easier with little ones. We’re always learning and adjusting our “must-have” list. Things with multiple uses are great like a bathtub which also serves as a bin for example. A highchair which is foldable and can be moved around can be very useful.

9. Raising Unique, Resilient Kids

Despite the challenges, we’re constantly amazed by how our kids are growing. They’re developing skills and perspectives that are truly unique. It’s not always easy, and often we wonder if we’re doing the right thing. But seeing them thrive in this environment, developing a deep connection with nature and an incredible sense of adaptability, makes it all worthwhile.

This lifestyle isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. It comes with its own set of difficulties and rewards. Some days are tough, and we question our choices. Other days are so beautiful they take our breath away. If you’re considering this path, know that it’s okay to have doubts and struggles. Reach out to other boating families – the community is incredibly supportive.

Remember, there’s no perfect way to raise a family, whether on land or at sea. We’re all just doing our best, learning as we go. If you decide to embark on this adventure, pack your patience, your sense of humour, and an open mind. The journey is challenging, but it’s also incredibly rewarding. Fair winds and following seas to all you brave parents out there!

Cory Bertrand Cory and Alex share their adventure with weekly videos on their YouTube channel “Wildly Intrepid Sailing” and share stories on their website www.wildlyintrepid.com . Their dream is to travel the world and to live without any regrets.